Personal Freedom
Retta Fontana at Strike the Root - good essay on the nature of freedom. Ms. Fontana grew up in a house where her mother expected her to read other people's minds and do what would make them happy. It took her many years to learn that that doesn't work. The only mind most of us can read is our own. And the only happiness most of us can control is our own. Yes, we can care for other people, and help them to accomplish what they want when we have the energy and inclination, but other people's feelings are not our responsibility, nor are our feelings their's. [root]